Showing posts with label Because You Asked. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Because You Asked. Show all posts

Sunday, January 20, 2008

I've Been Tagged

Chaunette tagged me, so here I go:

What's his name? Joseph or Joe

How long have you been together? Married 8 Years

How long did you date? 3 Months and then Engaged 3 Months


How old is he? 30

Who eats more? Usually I Do

Who said I love you first? I did, but it was done without realizing it...over the phone.

Who is taller? Joe

Who is smarter? I am more book smart (I do better at school) but Joe is smarter in most every other way.

Who does laundry? Joe isn't allowed to do laundry...it's my job by choice.

Who does the dishes? I load the dishwasher, Joe empties it (when he's in town for it).

Who sleeps on the right side of the bed? Joe


Who pays the bills? I manage our personal finances.

Who mows the lawn? I use to, but Joe does now.

Who cooks dinner? Typically I do, but Joe helps out every once in a while (he is especially good with meat on the grill).

Who drives when you are together? Joe. He doesn't always like it, because he drives so much for work, but I prefer having him drive.

Who is more stubborn? I think we're equally stubborn, but neither of us are terribly strong willed.

Who kissed who first? I kissed him on our second date...he he he.

Who asked out who first? Joe asked me out after I made a fool of myself at a neighborhood BBQ.

Who proposed? Technically no one. We just decided it was what we both wanted...Joe's mom made us make things official.


Who has more siblings? Joe. He has eight in his family, there are five in mine.

Who wears the pants in the family? I am pretty particular about how the house is ran, but Joe usually has the last say.

Okay, I tag: Anyone who would like to share a little about themselves!!!

Thursday, January 25, 2007

The Growing up Years...

I was born in Utah, but spent the majority of my childhood growing up in Idaho. The year I started 5th grade we moved from our home in the city to a ranch house about a mile outside of city limits. It was a great house on the center of an acre plot. There was a big ditch that ran across the front of the property and a large willow patch across the back. It seems that most of my youthful experiences were a direct result of living on this wonderful little farm in Idaho. I think this takes care of quite a few of the experiences on my LIST...

3. Climbed a mountain - I've climbed quite a few mountains, none to big or wonderful, but a few. We once stopped on our way home from Wyoming with my uncle and looked for fossils on the side of a mountain. It was a lot of fun.

9. Hugged a tree - who hasn't hugged a tree?! We had a huge tree in our front yard that we loved to climb and play on. I think I've hugged that tree quite a few times over the years. It got a bug and died though, sigh...no more tree.

17. Grown and eaten your own vegetables - we had this HUGE garden in the back field growing up. It was such a pain in the butt to weed, but the rewards were just as big. I love nothing better than fresh grown veggies. Yum!

19. Slept under the stars - I always loved sleeping out on the deck or at my friend Sarah's house on her trampoline in the backyard. I appreciate my warm bed too much now to find it quite so exciting, but nothing was better when I was little.27. Had a food fight - I have brothers, what more can I say?!

30. Had a snowball fight - same answer as above!

31. Screamed as loudly as you possibly can - I've done this a lot, more than I would like to admit now. Probably the one time I actually had a reason to be screaming at the top of my lungs was when my younger brother got mad at me and chased me into the bathroom with a knife...I didn't come out for a few hours.

33. Seen a total eclipse - I saw one when I was young, I can't remember how old I was. We were all sitting on the porch in front of the house. It was a really neat experience, one you don't forget.

34. Ridden a roller coaster - I didn't ride a roller coaster until I was in 9th grade when the whole 9th grade class went on their end of year trip to Lagoon - how sad is that? Just between us - They scare me to DEATH!

42. Had amazing friends - I've had a lot of truly amazing friends. I would hope everyone has had some.

45. Stolen a sign - in High School a bunch of my friends and I went out one night and stole an entire trunk full of signs off people's lawns. We played some night games at the golf course and on our way home got pulled over...fortunately, the trunk was never searched!

57. Pretended to be a super hero - This has very little to do with being raised on a farm, but everything to do with having brothers. We were very into the Teenage Mutant Ninga Turtles. My favorite was Michelangelo, check out the pic!60. Played touch football - Once again, the effects of having brothers. I was very into football as a young girl. I was the defensive captain on our Powder Puff Football team in High School. My favorite position was linebacker. Unfortunately, because we were girls, we had to play flag -0r touch- football, no tackling. So unfair. (I'm #16 in the pic, we're just getting ready to go out and play! It isn't a great photo, but all I could find).63. Played in the mud - I was somewhat obsessed with mud as a child. I remember sitting outside the house in the middle of a big mud puddle making mud pies, mud cakes, mud everything. I could have been a pig in another life.

64. Played in the rain - My sisters and I use to dress up in our play clothes and run around outside in the rain pretending to be Mary Poppins. We would run through the puddles and hold up our umbrellas and hope to get struck by lightening. Not very smart now that I think back on it.

73. Been in a movie - I don't think being in a big hit is in my future, but in High school we did Macbeth and I was Lady Macbeth. A friend of ours had access to the local public TV station and their equipment (I believe his parents owned it). Needless to say with the right equipment and some fancy editing, it didn't turn out too bad...I wish I still had a copy, it would be worth a good laugh every now and then!

81. Rafted the Snake River - We did this for a mutual activity once. I was the only one who fell out of the raft the entire trip...oops. I don't feel it was my fault though. We were going through some really heavy rapids and my yw leader (who was up there in years) lost her balance and knocked me out, I had been sitting right behind her. Fortunately one of the ym leaders was sitting behind me and grabbed the back of my life jacket and pulled me, under the raft, until we got to calm water. It was very exciting and, other than making me rather embarrassed, really livened up the trip!

84. Performed on stage - I clog. Correction, I use to clog. We performed at the fairs, parades and at the mall a few times. I was pretty good, but was only able to take classes for about a year. Then I got to busy and quit. I wish I hadn't, it was a lot of fun. Joe makes fun of me because when I get really happy I start to clog, he says it's my 'happy dance'. The pics not great, but the only one I have...I'm on the far right as you're looking at the pic.111. Helped an animal give birth - I walked out the back door of the house one day to see our very pregnant cow running around the pasture with a big white bubble hanging out of her butt. I ran and got my mom and we proceeded to herd the cow into the barn. She was in full blown labor and it was really amazing to watch. It took a few hours, we had to help pull the calf out because it got two of it's legs stuck. In the end she delivered a very healthy baby calf, a little girl. It was a really awesome experience.

116. Fired a rifle, shotgun, or pistol - I've fired all three. My best friend in high school, her father makes guns for a hobby. We use to practice with them all the time. I'm not as familiar with hand held firearms, but I'm a pretty darn good shot with a 22 - just ask my husband! I've gotten my Concealed Firearm Permit and this year Joe and I are going to take Hunter's Safety. I'm not a huge fanatic of firearms, but just as with anything, I think they have their place. I think my favorite gun is the 410. It is a shotgun, but it uses a much smaller shell. My dad has one and it only holds two shots, but if you're good, that's more than enough!

118. Ridden a horse - We owned a couple of horses growing up. I went out riding with my brother Henri once while my parents were at work, I believe we were on summer break. Anyhow, my brother's horse got spooked and took off. He got thrown from the horse and broke his arm. I had to walk him and the horses home. Fortunately, my dad was home on his lunch break and was able to take my brother to the hospital. I think that is the only time any of us ever broke a bone.

120. Had a snake as a pet - Remember the ditch that ran across the front of our property? It was a pretty big attraction for garden snakes. We use to catch them and keep them in buckets, they were pretty tricky though and most of them got away. We did have a few that found their way into the house on occasion...that was always fun.

128. Had your picture in the newspaper - I was a member of BPA in High School and made it to a National Competition in Business Management...and YES, I kept a copy of the piece they put in the paper, who wouldn't?! (More than likely it won't happen again until they run my obituary!) By-the-way, I tied for third place at Nationals, but there were quite a few of us who did and so they awarded us based on our time - my time put me in 11th place, one place away from recognition - oh well. (Again - not a good pic, but I just am not a very photogenic individual.)136. Killed and prepared an animal for eating - We raised a lot of animals on the farm, but the most consistent animal we raised were chickens. I have killed, plucked, skinned and cooked WAY TOO MANY chickens. I hate the plucking part and have officially resigned from ever doing so again. The rest, not so bad. There is just something about pulling the feathers out that I don't really like. I've also done a lot of fishing and I've helped my dad clean out and take care of cutting up deer. We once spent an entire day cutting up, grinding and packaging deer meat. Doesn't sound fun, but I always enjoyed just spending the time with my dad.

149. Caused a car accident - This is a good one to end on. I have never caused a serious accident, but I did rear end another car on the way out of the High School parking lot once. No one was hurt, not even the cars - THANK GOODNESS!

Communicated with somone without sharing a common spoken language...

I am not really sure of how old I was when this happened, I would have been just starting or finishing 6th grade.

My mom had loaded myself and my four siblings into our white Astro Van and we were heading from our home in Pocatello, Idaho to Utah to visit some of my mom's family. I believe one of my cousins was getting married somewhere in Southern Utah. Anyhow, fairly early on our drive we passed a hitch hiker who was heading South on I-15. We passed him, but my mom decided to turn around at the next exit and go back for him. That is exactly what we did.The hitch hiker's name was Rusty. He was doing some traveling but I can't remember where he was headed to specifically. I do remember discovering that hitch hiking was something he had wanted to give a try so he was doing it. The catch - Rusty was deaf. He could not speak and no one in my family is very accomplished in sign language. My older sister and I had taught ourselves the alphabet in sign language, but that was the extent of our repertoire. Otherwise we communicated with Rusty through good old fashioned paper and pencil. We spent about two hours in a crowded van with a complete stranger whom we couldn't talk to. He was a pretty accomplished lip reader, however, so it made it easier for him to understand us (then again that probably didn't make it much easier, he was riding in a van with 5 children who were generally all talking to him at once - even if he could have heard us he probably wouldn't have understood us).

I have always found it strange that even though I couldn't have been more than 11 at the time, I still vividly remember signing and writing to Rusty, I remember his name, I can even remember sitting next to him sharing a bowl of grapes and some popcorn. There is so much of my life during that time, and even after, that I can't recall to memory.

(Top: My Older Sister Cheri, Rusty the Hitch Hiker Bottom: Youngest Brother Bengi, Younger Sister Maggi, Audri, Younger Brother Henri)

My mom took this picture of Rusty with me and my siblings when we dropped him off. No one in my family has ever heard from or seen Rusty since, we can't even remember his last name. I do remember, however, that he was one of the nicest peopleI have ever met.

Gone to a Drive-In Theatre...

I have to put this in because it was one of the best moments of my life...

I had never been to the drive-in until I was 18. This was the summer I met Joe.

A little history...

Joe got home from his mission in August of 98. He was living at home, working and going school. He had big plans and a lot of things he wanted to get done in life. He wasn't looking for a wife, in fact he had decided he wasn't even going to start looking until he turned 25. I was only 18, earning money for my second year of college. I wanted to travel, experience life and just have a good time - marriage wasn't on either of our minds....Needless to say, fate had a different plan. It's weapon of choice - a beat up sorry pickup truck and the drive-in.

Joe and I met for the first time on May 29th, 1999. The first outing we ever went on was a dirt bike ride to a reservoir behind Joe's parents house. We swam and talked, but weren't overly impressed. We both felt like we had NOTHING in common. We were about as different as two people could be. Fortunately for me, the pickings out in Mass for LDS singles were pretty slim and so Joe decided to ask me out again. This time...the drive-in.

Joe picked me up in his little brothers truck. It was a navy blue pickup that had the bed of the truck literally tied to the cab with bailing twine (for those of you that don't know what that is, it is the orange string that farmers use to hold together bails of hay - not terribly reassuring). There were more holes in the bed than truck. Joe had thrown a twin mattress in the back of the truck and then lined the sides of the truck with bags of popcorn, snacks and soda...not to bad an idea, he just used the wrong vehicle to execute!

As we were driving to the Theatre we kept seeing these amazing explosions on the road behind us, but neither of us really knew what they were. When we arrived at the drive-in, we had a mattress and some blankets, but no snacks. Apparently they had all fallen through the various holes in the bed of the truck on our way there (the lack of soda's explained the mysterious explosions we witnessed on our way there)!! We had a pretty good laugh and made an instant connection. We snuggled in for the double feature to begin, it was Austin Powers 2 and another show I don't remember.

That was the beginning of what we have affectionately called, the best summer ever. We hung out every weekend and as often as work, and school, would allow during the weeks. We went paint balling, jumped off bridges, went to shows in Boston, visited historical sites, etc. I can honestly say that by the end of the summer Joe had become my best friend.

Needless to say, I will never forget my first trip to the drive in, and I will always be grateful for that summer. It was most definitely the most fun I'd ever had - a real adventure. We've been back to the drive-in a few times since, even brought the kids along. We'll never be able to have that summer back, but in so many ways our lives have gotten better, richer and fuller than they were back then...who could have guessed?!

(For those who want to know, Joe followed me back to Utah when I returned to finish school and got accepted to the U of U. We were engaged Sept 6th and married Nov 27th 1999, only two days shy of being exactly 6mths from "Hello" to wedded bliss!)

The List...

So many of you have done this and I really feel like I've learned a lot about you by reading it. So, I thought I'd give it a whirl. It's bold if I've done it.


1. Bought everyone in the bar a drink
2. Swum with wild dolphins
3. Climbed a mountain
4. Ridden in a Ferrari
5. Been inside the Great Pyramid
6. Held a tarantula
7. Taken a candlelit bath with someone
8. Said "I love you" and meant it
9. Hugged a tree
10. Bungee jumped
11. Visited Paris
12. Watched a lightning storm at sea
13. Stayed up all night long and seen the sun rise
14. Seen the Northern Lights
15. Gone to an Olympics game
16. Walked the stairs to the top of the leaning Tower of Pisa
17. Grown and eaten your own vegetables
18. Touched an iceberg
19. Slept under the stars
20. Changed a baby's diaper
21. Taken a trip in a hot air balloon
22. Watched a meteor shower
23. Gotten drunk on Dom Perignon
24. Given more than you can afford to charity
25. Looked up at the night sky through a telescope
26. Had an uncontrollable giggling fit at the worst possible moment
27. Had a food fight
28. Bet on a winning horse
29. Asked out a stranger
30. Had a snowball fight
31. Screamed as loudly as you possibly can
32. Held a lamb
33. Seen a total eclipse
34. Ridden a roller coaster
35. Hit a home run
36. Danced like a fool and not cared who was looking
37. Adopted an accent for an entire day
38. Actually felt happy about your life, even for just a moment
39. Had two hard drives for your computer
40. Visited all 50 states
41. Taken care of someone who was drunk
42. Had amazing friends
43. Danced with a stranger in a foreign country
44. Watched wild whales
45. Stolen a sign
46. Backpacked in Europe
47. Taken a road-trip
48. Gone rock climbing
49. Taken a midnight walk on the beach
50. Gone sky diving
51. Visited Ireland
52. Been heartbroken longer than you were actually in love
53. In a restaurant, sat at a stranger's table and had a meal with them
54. Visited Japan
55. Milked a cow
56. Alphabetized your CDs
57. Pretended to be a superhero
58. Sung karaoke
59. Lounged around in bed all day
60. Played touch football
61. Gone snorkeling in the Caribbean
62. Kissed in the rain
63. Played in the mud
64. Played in the rain
65. Gone to a drive-in theater
66. Visited the Great Wall of China
67. Started a business
68. Fallen in love and not had your heart broken
69. Toured ancient sites
70. Taken a martial arts class
71. Played D&D for more than 6 hours straight
72. Gotten married
73. Been in a movie
74. Crashed a party
75. Gotten divorced
76. Gone without food for 5 days
77. Made cookies from scratch
78. Won first prize in a costume contest
79. Ridden a gondola in Venice
80. Gotten a tattoo
81. Rafted the Snake River
82. Appeared on television as a featured guest
83. Received flowers for no reason
84. Performed on stage
85. Been to Las Vegas
86. Recorded music
87. Eaten shark
88. Kissed on the first date
89. Gone to Thailand
90. Bought a house
91. Been in a combat zone
92. Buried one/both of your parents
93. Been on a cruise ship
94. Spoken more than one language fluently
95. Performed in Rocky Horror
96. Raised children
97. Followed your favorite band/singer on tour
99. Taken an exotic bicycle tour in a foreign country
100. Picked up and moved to another city to just start over
101. Walked the Golden Gate Bridge
102. Sung loudly in the car, and didn't stop when you knew someone was looking
103. Had plastic surgery
104. Survived an accident that you shouldn't have survived
105. Published one or more books
106. Lost 100 pounds
107. Held someone while they were having a flashback
108. Piloted an airplane
109. Touched a stingray
110. Broken someone's heart
111. Helped an animal give birth
112. Won money on a T.V. game show
113. Broken a bone
114. Gone on an African photo safari
115. Had a facial part pierced other than your ears
116. Fired a rifle, shotgun, or pistol
117. Eaten mushrooms that were gathered in the wild
118. Ridden a horse
119. Had major surgery
120. Had a snake as a pet
121. Hiked to the bottom of the Grand Canyon
122. Slept for more than 30 hours over the course of 48 hours
123. Visited more foreign countries than U.S. states
124. Visited all 7 continents
125. Taken a canoe trip that lasted more than 2 days
126. Eaten kangaroo meat
127. Eaten sushi
128. Had your picture in the newspaper
129. Changed someone's mind about something you care deeply about
130. Gone back to school
131. Parasailed
132. Touched a cockroach
133. Eaten fried green tomatoes
134. Read The Iliad - and the Odyssey
135. Selected one "important" author who you missed in school, and read
136. Killed and prepared an animal for eating
137. Skipped all your school reunions
138. Communicated with someone without sharing a common spoken language
139. Been elected to public office
140. Written your own computer language
141. Thought to yourself that you're living your dream
142. Had to put someone you love into hospice care
143. Built your own PC from parts
144. Sold your own artwork to someone who didn't know you
145. Had a booth at a street fair
146. Dyed your hair
147. Been a DJ
148. Shaved your head
149. Caused a car accident
150. Saved someone's life

There are so many things on this list that I would still love to do, and so many that I never want to experience. Some of the things that I've done are pretty typical - like having a snowball fight (anyone with brothers as obnoxious as mine has done this), but some of them have some pretty significant, if not just plain stupid or funny, stories that go along with them. I'll have to elaborate on some in the future...I've had some good times.

Wednesday, December 06, 2006

My Holiday Survey...


1. Eggnog or Hot chocolate? Definitely Hot Chocolate. I HATE Eggnog - Sorry guys!
2. Does Santa wrap presents or just sit them under the tree? Wraps them. Stocking stuffers aren't wrapped, but everything else is.
3. Colored lights on tree/house or white? Colored lights on the tree, none on the house.
4. Do you hang mistletoe? Nope.
5. When do you put your decorations up? As soon as I can find the time, after Thanksgiving.
6. What is your favorite holiday dish (excluding dessert)? I love it all....food, food, food.
7. Favorite holiday memory as a child? Waking up one year to our presents all missing from under the tree. We were so worried. Then we found them after my mom got home from working the night shift (we found out much later that she hid them before she left so she wouldn't miss out on seeing us open them). It made Christmas a little more special that year.
8. How and when did you learn the truth about Santa? Probably not until 5th grade or so.
9. Do you open a gift on Christmas Eve? Yes, always new Christmas pajamas.
10. How do you decorate your Christmas tree? With a little of everything! Joe's grandma has made us TONS of decorations with that plastic stuff covered in yarn. It's a jumble of things, but we love it.
11. Snow? Love it or dread it? Love it if I'm not driving in it.
12. Can you ice skate? I have once or twice, so I suppose I can, just not well.
13. Do you remember your favorite gift? A teddy bear I got when I was 6, it was my favorite gift that year, and the only one I actually remember getting.
14. What's the most important thing about the holidays for you? Spending time with the people I love.
15. What is your favorite homemade holiday dessert? Fudge - Joe's Aunt makes the BEST!
16. What is your favorite holiday tradition? Joe always builds a big fire and we sit in front of it and watch the kids open their presents.
17. What tops your tree? Star
18. Which do you prefer giving or receiving? Definitely giving.
19. What is your favorite Christmas song? I love them all, anything that brings that holiday cheer!